People who can’t think objectively constantly feel under attack because they never put themselves in someone else’s shoes so they always end up being a victim. By removing yourself from a situation you can think in a more balanced way.
Sometimes our ability to be objective is no longer a strength, that is when we end up helping people even though its hurting us. Never feel that you have to be there for everyone who cries on your shoulder. I am learning that saying no in the right situation is actually strength, the strength to love yourself and to realize when somebody asks too much of you. People who truly care about you will never put you in certain situations. Always remember to look at both sides of every story but never feel obliged to support something that doesn’t serve you.