People who can’t think objectively constantly feel under attack because they never put themselves in someone else’s shoes so they always end up being a victim. By removing yourself from a situation you can think in a more balanced way.
Sometimes our ability to be objective is no longer a strength, that is when we end up helping people even though its hurting us. Never feel that you have to be there for everyone who cries on your shoulder. I am learning that saying no in the right situation is actually strength, the strength to love yourself and to realize when somebody asks too much of you. People who truly care about you will never put you in certain situations. Always remember to look at both sides of every story but never feel obliged to support something that doesn’t serve you.
Sometimes, great things happen in our lives that were only ever meant to be temporary. In a moment of happiness we decide that it was something meant for us, that the universe is conspiring to pave a path to happiness and success. In a moment of clarity, you realize all the things that were not so perfect, that actually you created this path because you were holding onto that moment of happiness and in fact you have actually fallen off the universe’s path where you could have been much happier. In that moment you realize you actually lost yourself, you convinced yourself that these things were meant for you when in fact it was never what you wanted in the first place. So…maybe the journey isn’t about becoming something, its about unbecoming everything who isn’t you and finding who you were meant to be in the first place!!